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Inlaw Hell

Writing by Bree on Saturday, 12 of January , 2008 at 2:51 pm

I truly have come to realize that my in laws suck more than most. They don’t care about their own son or grandkids and I am seen as the evil missus from below that has come to destroy their sons life.

I mean my husband suffers from depression and post traumatic stress because of them and their bad choices from his childhood. Although my husband is trying to conquer this and is in therapy. Well today we had a confrontation with my husbands father and the truth is we are done with them. He has painted me as the devil and wants my husband to leave me and has tried to drive a wedge between us when he realized that he couldn’t win.

My husband is of course upset at this but we feel  that this is the best thing in some ways and very sad in other ways.

I feel really hurt and offended that my husbands family feel that I am such an evil person and it hurts more than anything that they feel that I have caused his depression. I have struggled with feelings that this is my fault from the beginning of our marriage and have worked hard to overcome them but it still hurts when people say it.

I am praying that not having them in our life will change my husbands world that this haze of depression will leave. I am at times losing hope but I could stand today how his dad spoke about my husband and it made me realise that I am all my husband has other than the kids and God.

I suppose I am venting about this as it really does cut deep. I have a session with my counselor this week so I think it could come sooner.

Please pray that cutting his family out of our lives will be a good thing that God will turn it into good.

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